from Pre-Birth Council
were at a crisis point in our relationship and the space you
held helped me to connect and process some dark and truly uncomfortable
emotions. I had felt totally disempowered, fearful and spiritually
void, which is a terrible position to be in when one is at
loggerheads with one’s partner and about to have a child.
I found the experience transcendental and shamanic, in that
so much of the detritus was cleared without the need for words.
Having you come on such short notice to mediate for us was
a priceless gift. I felt truly supported and part of a real
I’ve no doubt that the journey we three took through council helped
our son to be born safe and well in a peaceful, loving and welcoming environment.
Blessings on you and many, many thanks'
....during our council session with him (Rob) we
experienced a deep sacredness in our communication together,
and the impact of this on our relationship has been profound
from relationship sessions
found the council a few weeks ago deeply moving and inspiring
and it has appeared to facilitate S and I taking the step to
actually gift each other with freedom and commit to unconditional
love. We will see how that unfolds for us as individuals and
I notice you used 'heart full' to describe your experience and that is exactly
how I experienced your facilitation: i wanted to thank you for that.
a group we were all finding the pace of life stressful, our
ability to communicate our feelings, concerns and ideas became
increasingly harder to achieve. Over-reacting emotionally led
quickly to arguments and further distress for us all.
Our group session with Rob unblocked the energy, feelings and concerns that
we were all suffering. By having the opportunity to speak uninterrupted in
a safe and regulated environment allowed us all to witness and empathise
with each others concerns. It removed much of the defensive and fearful aspects
of engaging in debate. We rapidly moved forward and began to enjoy our exchange
of ideas and feelings. This has led to a greater feeling of mutual and harmonious
solidarity. Change for us now is very dynamic and exciting. I think I can
speak for the group by saying that the experience was both rejuvenating and
for Rob's help! One day with Rob's help our family quickly ended
the kind of dreadful atmosphere in our new life. His gentle attitude
and bright ideas quickly opened all of our hearts to the sunshine
and now we can get warm sunshine from each other! We could talk,
criticise, communicate easily and we are in such a harmonious
happy family. We are thankful to you Rob!
was a pleasure even for that day. We applied the council with
Stella my wife, it seemed like the most honest and real conversation
we had. It's like it dissolves fear of judgement on the one
part and judgement altogether on the other.
M. – Greece
And I want to share that I invited to and held
a family council last Sunday with my family (brother, father
and mother). Basically I had really badly cornered myself in
my relation to them, thrown a few bombs and was not able to see
any other reasonable solution than inviting for a council (which
I think I always thought impossible to have with them) or quit
all further contact with them.
Pushing the send button for the invitation I was shivering all
over.... And waiting time was a bit unbearable until they all
So they went into council without knowing anything about it.
I spent 15 minutes framing it very clearly and opening (mother
decided it be fire to open council) the council I was actually
able to let go of facilitator role and let the council carry
us through. Feelings were intense and lots of old stuff was shared.
But everyone stayed all way through both physically and mentally
and listened to eachother.
WAUUUU it was and still is a fantastic experience what we were
actually able to share in those one and a half hours the council
lasted. And afterwards the general feedback was very positive.
For me I feel I am no longer holding back a part of myself from
my near family whish is such a relief. It feels like some rinsed
our relation with nurturing water and we can all breathe freely
in the relation again.
M . – Denmark